Wednesday, April 05, 2006

There need not be "love"

Whenever I came across a boy n a girl who were good friends , I always heard of a rumour about them . And obviously the
rumour was that they are in love . Why can't we accept the fact that there can be something other than love between a boy n a
girl ??? There is no need to attach "brotherhood" which is being done most of the times .If the rumour spreads at a great
pace then sooner or later I saw the girl or the boy declaring "brotherhood" so as to make others calm down . But why is it so
?? If one fears of facing the people then why did you dare to have a friend of opposite sex . I always thought of why do
people most of the time fear to admit such friendships . If one has true friendship at heart then where does these rumours
stand ???
Most of the time if a boy talks to a girl his peer group always catch him for the matter . The boy will be bogged up most
of the time . Seeing at a situation never the boy nor the other ones in the peer group would ever dare do that .When will the
realisation come among our generation ?? a question to be seriously dealt . The problem is more when people from interiors n
towns are present . A city youngster has no hesitation to talk to girls and he is accustomed to do it .But when such a person
is among narrow-minded individuals his problems get worsened .Even no one bothers to hear his explanation .
The students of rural areas , if they want to girls , hesitate to do so as they are not accustomed to it .When such a
person is surrounded by urban youth his problem still worsens as he will be made fun off in front of girls . The problem to
this is simple the girls should open up their minds freely n talk to boys as well as the boys have to do the same .For all
this to happen one needs to believe the fact that "there need not be love " between a boy n a girl .
Some can argue that "aren't most of the friendships being converted to love ???".The answer is yes .But it all depends on
ourselves .It is one of the strong side-effects of cinema these days where in someone tells the hero to make friendship n
later express his love n the hero follows the same n wins his love . Isn't such a message killing the true value of
friendship ??? College love is a superhit formula for cinema where friends guide the hero for his love ( I saw a movie where
the hero's parents do it ) .Mindblowing .......... where are we heading for ??? Hmmm ......... Comments invited . NO OFFENCES MEANT .

17 Comments:

At 10:05 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

nice that u wrote this.but u people only will be first commenting when a guy and girl talk to each other

 
At 3:26 PM, Blogger Viswanadh said...

Feel free to express your view and your name plz.

 
At 4:48 PM, Blogger Ravi Kiran said...

Anna.... emmi rasavu ra...
Endhukana illa rasavu...
Ninnu edpisthunaru anna...
sare anna inka nunchi alla cheyamu le... sorryyyyy...

 
At 11:13 PM, Blogger Viswanadh said...

no ravi its about those who can't open up their minds for change . As far as I am concerned I don't care who ever comment . I'll do anything whatever I feel right . I believe in " why should I sacrifice at the expense of others ???? " . Anyways , thanks for the concern . Ninnu evarina emaina ante naaku cheppu chusukuntanu .

 
At 5:37 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

"A city youngster has no hesitation to talk to girls and he is accustomed to do it . The students of rural areas , if they want to girls , hesitate to do so as they are not accustomed to it ."

Nuvvu chala pedda puzzle makervi raaaaaaaa.

Nuvvu rasina paina sentences lone answer undi. I got a question 4 u....
Niku SWARDHAM unda??????????
Nakaithe undi......mari nee questionski answer nuvve cheppali.

 
At 6:37 AM, Blogger Viswanadh said...

hi pedagadi ,

Ammmo !!! u have rocked the shatters with some very interesting question . I , most of the times , feel " If he/she is able to do it , Why not I ??? " . If u call this selfishness , then i am very selfish , or else I am not .

 
At 8:49 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

i dont quite agree with ur vew that guys and girls in towns are timid to talk to each other .just go to those village and town colleges everything looks normal.my point of view on ths issue is that it is personal problem of "fear and judgement "that takes over people when they find it hard to talk to opposite sex.they have inhibitions and some different opinions in their subconscious mind that makes them think otherwise when they think of opposite sex.nothing to do with vilage -town thing.they i suppose have to overcome mentalblock
so that such inhibitions go

 
At 10:03 PM, Blogger Ravi Kiran said...

@aditya

madhyalo nanu endhuku laguthunavu bhaiyya.....

 
At 9:55 AM, Blogger N!kh!l said...

"I always thought of why do
people most of the time fear to admit such friendships "

Do you think its easy to admit such friendship?? Chill out dude..its not as easy as u think it is. Such admitting calls for a similar attitude from the girl as well as from the guy.If the guy is ready to admit the girlz not or sometimes the other way round.For a "boy-girl-friendship" to be looked at normally it will still take some time atleast amongst the "rural guys". When i say "rural" i dont mean the people from rural areas i mean people with cheap thoughts.

njoi

 
At 11:03 PM, Blogger Viswanadh said...

.... When i say "rural" i dont mean the people from rural areas i mean people with cheap thoughts...

Well said nikki !!!

 
At 1:52 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

vishwanath,

waiting for posts from u.increase frequency of posting

wellwisher

 
At 6:27 PM, Blogger Viswanadh said...

Sure ww , I'll come up with some issue but i want some time .

 
At 7:21 AM, Blogger Reetesh Mukul said...

When a guy and girl talk with each other ... be your self. The thoughts that boils in our minds are inevitable, rushing into them for some inroads will only kill time. So, if you want to chillax yourself, cook stories, otherwise ... goli maaro bhejo ko

 
At 4:48 PM, Blogger Ravi Kiran said...

waiting for a new topic brother!

 
At 5:51 PM, Blogger Ravi Kiran said...

what????????
come again....

 
At 3:18 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

@maruthi
babu maruthi blog ki comment rayamante ekanga blog ee rasesavu enti nayana....

 
At 4:14 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

dude..u know what...these things must not really matter if you think it is crap. Which infact is! We have to move ahead in the relationships space, there is a long way to go to change the minds n intellects of Indian thinking. So sit back, relax and do wtevr u want to do. Everyone else can go to hell..as simple as that. As long as you are influenced by others thoughts n reactions, u will never be happy.

ram

 

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